You need to know. T is our oldest, he's 13 and has had a pretty typical semi-rebellious childhood which occasionally includes not returning home when we've asked. W is our second - 11 still and not quite to that stage.
W asked recently to do something with a friend... a sleepover I believe... We've tried to get away from these because of the resultant crabbiness the next day from lack of sleep. So, we said No...
W's response? "We believe that men will be punished for their own sins, and not for T's transgressions"
Bwa - hahahahahahahahahaha
but no, the answer was still no.
(why is this funny? See here)